**VIEWER DISCRETION ADVISED** (A Secret You Might Not Want To Know)
So what are you waiting for?
What would it take to transform?
How bad does it need to get?
How high do the flames need to go for you to realize you're in the middle of burning to the ground?
How many excuses can you make, days can you waste, times will "tomorrow" never come?
I have been there, too.
I have sat in my shame and saw there was only me to blame.
The good news is, there's good news, and it is this:
the whole thing is very simple.
You either are who you want to be, or you're not.
And you can blame the world or your shitty job and your shitty income, or your shitty parents and your shitty boss, but in the end, blame is just a sad displacement of the truth.
The truth is that it is your choice. You either are who you want to be, or you're not.
Blame is just an easy way to excuse yourself from whatever choice you're making.